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How to Know When You Should Ask for Help

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Just as important is knowing how to do it the right way.

A key aspect of risk management for lawyers is knowing when to ask for help.

Just as important is knowing how to do it the right way.

“Many people feel vulnerable when asking for help,” according to business writer Emily Heaslip and the newsletter CO. “But the ability to recognize your own limitations is a form of strength.”

Lawyers in solo and small firms should be alert to signs that help is needed.

If there is an issue regarding the lawyer’s mental, physical or emotional health, contact a confidential, experienced care provider. Get in touch with your state bar’s Lawyer Assistance Program, your professional liability insurance carrier, or a trusted colleague. Ask for a referral if needed.

If the issue involves a client or case file, the first step is to determine if the matter should be reported to your malpractice insurance carrier. Incidents that are not promptly reported might not be covered by your malpractice policy. Law firms that are insured through Alta Pro Insurance Services have access to Reminger’s ProLink for 24/7 help with a problem case. Often, the experts at Reminger are able to fix the problem without a malpractice claim being filed.

And if the lawyer has been sued (or threatened with a suit), the firm should immediately notify their malpractice carrier.  

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4 Tips for Asking for Help

Following are some suggested steps for requesting help when you need it, courtesy of Emily Heaslip and CO:

  • Make it clear that you need help. Don’t beat around the bush. Don’t waste time telling a friend about a “problem” at work, if what you really need is help with that problem.
  • Be specific. “No one wants to give the wrong advice or bad help,” writes Heaslip. “Unclear requests can make it difficult for someone to gauge what it is you really need, and therefore make them reluctant to try to help you at all. Remove this opportunity for friction and confusion by making a clear, specific request.”
  • Don’t be tone deaf. If you approach someone who has no ability to help, all you can do is vent. Likewise, if the person you approach is overwhelmed or stressed themselves, go elsewhere.
  • Communicate exactly how you think they can help you. “When you make your request, make sure you highlight the future impact of the aid someone will give,” writes Heaslip. “For instance, when asking someone to review your business pitch, share how their feedback will help you present it to an upcoming panel of investors. A concrete outcome will make your request feel more meaningful.”

Source: How To Ask For Help With Your Business (

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